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What Men Want No. 39: An Ugly, Fat WomanDid this title confuse you a little bit? So it should. What men want is an ugly, fat woman. A play on words? Hardly. It’s simply a play on perception. We all know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how can you use your seemingly “ugly” looks to re-attract a husband who’s lost interest in you? Details are below. We don’t want you to be perfect. We married you, knowing that you’re probably going to turn into a “wife”, ie. lose all your youthful looks and beguiling prettiness. This is going to happen sooner or later, but it doesn’t mean that you have to stop looking attractive. You’ve got to remember that being attractive isn’t limited to your looks. Why do some men stay married to their women until they reach their 50th anniversary? There is so much more to looks. If us guys simply relied on looks to keep us together with women, the divorce rate would be 100%. Face it. You will become ugly one day. However, if you turn that perception of ugly and instead come to accept it, your man will remember that he married you for your internal qualities. Think about it from your perspective. Do you know of a guy who is completely comfortable with how he looks, and has married a bombshell of a woman? Or similarly, do you have a friend who has married someone who you wouldn’t typically consider to be a stunner of a man, but is still attractive in some way? The guys who put in the effort usually are the ones who are more insecure and unhappy with themselves. They are less complete as individuals and would be more likely to use their partner as an emotional crutch, someone they need to constantly lean on for support, since they’re too insecure to get themselves out of their own rut. That’s why the big, muscly guys or the men who spend a lot of money dressing up when they go out often aren’t the best catches. Looks can be deceiving, even with us guys who usually are the simpler gender. But anyway, back to women. We don’t want you to go ahead with plastic surgery. We want you to be happy the way you are. That will make us love you more. So you’re not ugly. You’re still beautiful on the inside. You’re not fat. You’re voluptuous and curvy. Flaunt it while you can! About the Author Which is better: relationship advice from a woman who’s had a lot of experience with men, or having the man of your dreams tell you exactly what you have to do to never make him look at another woman ever again? The second thing is too good to be true, but if you visit http://HerSecretWeapon.com, you’ll learn something just as powerful: the ability to find out what you’re doing that’s making men not want to be close to you. I’ve also got a short, 13-page report up at http://JackKeys.com that will show you 10 ways to stop your man from leaving you for someone better. But be quick… these links might have to be removed soon and I can’t promise that they’ll be there tomorrow. Joe Tex– no bump no more { with no big fat woman }
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